Do older men realize that younger women usually do not prefer them?
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I am 57. i started sleeping and or dating younger women in my mid 30s. My first was 19 when I was 35...
What are your controversial and hot takes on Naruto?
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1: Itachi was a terrible brother. One thing that can’t reach the heads of Ichitards is that intentio...
Why is Hinduism not polytheistic?
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Originally answered: Why is Hinduism a polytheistic religion? Well, this question could be taken in...
How are max different from medical and minimum security prisons?
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If you’re talking about feds, my god the difference is NIGHT and DAY. You literally cannot comprehen...
Why do some people feel down in summer, specifically in July and August? What could be the reasons behind this feeling of sadness during those months only?
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These months make me sweat so much and to feel awful. I was not always this way but the air quality...
I've played The Outer Worlds 2, and this Xbox RPG seriously improves on its predecessor in one big way - Windows Central
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After going hands-on with The Outer Worlds 2 and speaking to game director Brandon Adler, I see how...
If you believe in God, do you think God can save you from cancer?
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What can you believe for, is the question? The healing power of God is unlimited. You must not be un...
Why aren't you a Trump supporter?
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Let us count the ways. Captain Obvious says: I have an acute aversion to scumbags I see through liar...
What is your craziest/worst Halloween story?
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A reader messaged me and asked to repost a Halloween answer I had given last year. She said she coul...
Do Flat Earthers exist today? If so, where do they live?
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Last week I found a question in some space or other here that was loosely this: why do so many Ameri...
Why do North Indians, living in Bangalore, not bother to learn Kannada?
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Because it's not required otherwise they would be comfortably speaking your language. I have been to...
I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?
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Yes, this is relatable. I realized somewhat recently that I had been substituting my need for emotio...